“Rituals are the way we carry the meaning of our lives forward.” – Starhawk
Frequently Asked Questions
You’re not expected to know how all of this works — that’s why I’m here. These FAQs give you a quick, simple overview of the things people ask me most often. They’re designed to make the planning process feel clearer and far less overwhelming. Whether you’re curious about the legal bits, the creative parts, or what actually happens on the day, you’ll find the essentials right here.
For more information about getting married in Australia visit the Attorney General's Department web page.
If you have further questions, or would like to make a booking, please don't hesitate to contact me.
How far in advance should we book a celebrant?
The earlier the better, especially for popular months and Saturday dates. Many couples book 12 to 18 months ahead, but sometimes there’s a lovely little gap in the calendar waiting just for you.
How do we lock in our date?
A signed terms & conditions agreement and booking fee secures your date in my calendar. Once that’s done, your ceremony day is officially yours.
When do we need to do the legal paperwork?
The legal form called the Notice of Intended Marriage must be completed at least one month before your wedding date.
What ID do we need?
Usually:
- Passport or birth certificate
- Photo ID
- Divorce papers if previously married
- Death certificate if widowed
Do we need witnesses?
Yes, two witnesses over 18 years old are required.
Can we write our own vows?
Absolutely. Your vows can be heartfelt, funny, simple, poetic, or beautifully awkward if that’s your style. You’ll just need to include one short legal sentence each.
What if we’re nervous speaking in front of people?
Very common. Almost everyone feels it. We work around your comfort level so nothing feels forced or theatrical.
How long does the ceremony usually take?
Most ceremonies sit somewhere between 15 and 30 minutes.
Can we include kids, pets, family members, or special rituals?
Yes, and often those are the moments everyone remembers most!
Can we include handfasting, sand ceremony, or other rituals?
Definitely. Rituals can add beautiful symbolism without feeling overdone.
Do we have to exchange rings?
No, rings are traditional but not legally required.
Do you provide a PA system?
Yes I do. You can connect to my PA system via Bluetooth or USB.